Regulasi diri dan trust pada pasangan dewasa awal yang menikah

Nadya Munawarah Norhan; Aziza Fitriah; Dicky Listin Quarta

doi:10.35316/psycomedia.2025.v4i2.103-116

Authors

Nadya Munawarah Norhan Universitas Muhammadiyah Banjarmasin
Aziza Fitriah Universitas Muhammadiyah Banjarmasin
Dicky Listin Quarta Universitas Muhammadiyah Banjarmasin

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.35316/psycomedia.2025.v4i2.103-116

Keywords:

Early Adulthood; , Self-Regulation;, Trust

Abstract

Trust involves belief in loyalty, mutual reliance, and emotional support in a relationship. To build trust, individuals must have self-regulation to manage and evaluate their behavior. The purpose of this study was to examine the relationship between self-regulation and trust in early married couples. The approach used in this study was a quantitative approach with a correlational design. Data were collected using psychological scales, including the trust scale from Rempel et al. (1985) and the self-regulation scale from the Self-Regulation Questionnaire (SRQ) by Miller and Brown (1991). The results of this study indicate that there is a relationship between self-regulation and trust in married young adult couples. This study enables individuals to understand the importance of self-regulation in building trust in a partner. The study has limitations, such as a limited sample size and a lack of specific studies on both variables, making it difficult to find relevant sources. Further research is expected to expand the context of self-regulation and trust in married couples and involve broader data collection.

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