Strategi pengendalian diri dalam perspektif Al-Qur’an Surat Al-Hujurat ayat 12

Ujang Rohman; Shalahudin Ismail; Reva Savela

doi:10.35316/psycomedia.2023.v3i1.35-40

Ujang Rohman Universitas Islam Negeri Sunan Gunung Djati, Bandung
Shalahudin Ismail Universitas Islam Negeri Sunan Gunung Djati, Bandung
Reva Savela Universitas Islam Negeri Sunan Gunung Djati, Bandung

10.35316/psycomedia.2023.v3i1.35-40

Keywords: Al-Hujurat verse 12, Prejudice, Self-Control

Abstract

Surah Al-Hujurat verse 12 provides guidance on self-control in dealing with negative assumptions and gossiping behavior in social interactions. This verse emphasizes the importance of avoiding negative assumptions, avoiding seeking the faults of others, and prohibiting backbiting. Self-control in dealing with negative assumptions and gossiping behavior includes controlling one’s attitude and speech, as well as awareness of the existence of Allah. Mutual respect and acceptance that humans are not perfect form the basis for this self-control. In conclusion, Surah Al-Hujurat verse 12 teaches that self-control against negative assumptions and gossiping is the key to positive and loving social relationships, reflecting Islamic values in interacting with others.

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