KONSTRUKSI DAN EFEKTIVITAS KONSELING PRANIKAH DI KUA KECAMATAN GAYAM DALAM MENINGKATKAN KESIAPAN BERKELUARGA

Abstract

The high challenges in modern household dynamics demand mature preparation for
prospective bride and groom couples. The Office of Religious Affairs (KUA) of Gayam
District, Sumenep Regency, implements premarital counseling as an instrument to mitigate the
risks of unreadiness. This study aims to analyze the construction and implementation of
premarital counseling at KUA Gayam District and its implications for the psychological and
religious readiness of prospective couples. This study employed a descriptive qualitative
approach, with data collection techniques including observation, interviews, and
documentation. Data analysis was conducted by juxtaposing field findings with behavior
change and marital readiness theories. The research findings indicate that the construction of
premarital counseling at KUA Gayam has transformed from a mere administrative procedure
into a value incubation process through three pillars: religious (theological foundation),
psychological (character exploration), and relational (parental approach). The implementation
of counseling utilizes a dialogic lecture method that effectively triggers behavioral changes
from the contemplation stage toward collective commitment readiness. Premarital counseling
at KUA Gayam is proven to be a strategic social laboratory in strengthening family resilience.

The synergy between the internalization of religious values and the strengthening of
interpersonal communication significantly contributes to the maturity of prospective couples
in facing the complexities of married life.