Konseling At-Tawazun : Jurnal Kajian Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun <p>At-Tawazun Counseling journal published on January and July, and used Indonesia and English. This journal is a publication media for researchers, practitioners, academices, and intellectuals, and the results of their writing are contributed to Islamic and counseling.</p> en-US attawazun.jurnal@gmail.com (M. Syakur) fathurrahman@gmail.com (Fathurrahman) Sun, 07 Jul 2024 23:02:38 +0700 OJS 3.1.2.2 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 RATIONAL EMOTIVE BEHAVIOR THERAPY UNTUK MENGURANGI SELF INJURY https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5379 <p>Self-injury is self-harming behavior that is carried out intentionally because you cannot <br>express your emotions without the intention of committing suicide. The subject in this study <br>was a 20 year old male counselee, with a disorder that often hurts himself. The subject does <br>this because he feels that nothing can calm his mind and understand his emotions. Rational <br>Emotive Behavior Therapy was used in this research because it can identify and change ir<br>rational thoughts through cognitive therapy with individual counseling services. This rese<br>arch is action research with two cycles. After the subject realizes that irrational thoughts are <br>the main cause, the subject is directed to good thoughts and a good outlet for emotions. The <br>results of this research are that REBT with cognitive techniques can be a means for subjects <br>to fight their irrational thoughts.</p> Nurul Mar’atis Sholeha, As’ad, Wawan Juandi Copyright (c) 2024 https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5379 Sun, 07 Jul 2024 00:00:00 +0700 SENI MUSIK HADRAH SEBAGI MEDIA KONSELING ISLAM DALAM MENGUBAH PERILAKU REMAJA https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5380 <p>The problem of juvenile delinquency in Indonesia is the main problem faced today. De<br>linquency that occurs in teenagers is influenced by the social, emotional environment and the <br>mindset of teenagers. The aim of this research is to describe the positive side of hadrah mu<br>sic as a medium for Islamic counseling for teenagers. This research uses a qualitative rese<br>arch method with a case study type of research. The results of the research that has been car<br>ried out can be concluded that teenagers can change deviant behavior to positive behavior, <br>change interaction patterns, thought patterns, control emotions. Through the hadrah and sy’ir <br>arts activities that they present, they are able to become wiser and wiser in their behavior.</p> Farhatul Lailiyah, Mohamat Hadori, Samsul Arifin Copyright (c) 2024 https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5380 Sun, 07 Jul 2024 00:00:00 +0700 IMPLEMENTASI KONSELING SUFISTIK DALAM MINIMALISASI PERILAKU NEGATIF SANTRI DI PONDOK PESANTREN NURUL FATA BONDOWOSO https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5381 <p>Sufistic counseling is a process of assistance provided by the counselor to the counselee through <br>the science of Sufism. Sufistic counseling is based on the basic values of Islamic teachings, na<br>mely the Koran and Hadith. The main goal that Sufism wants to realize is the presence of human <br>beings. The aim of this research is to describe the implementation of Sufistic counseling in mini<br>mizing the negative behavior of students at the Nurul Fata Bondowoso Islamic Boarding School. <br>This research uses a qualitative research method with a case study type of research. The results of <br>research regarding the implementation of Sufistic counseling at the Nurul Fata Islamic Boarding <br>School through three stages. First, the counselor invites students who behave deviantly to the co<br>unseling room. Second, providing assistance through Sufistic counseling using the tazkiyah an<br>nafs technique. Third, the counselee is treated with tahajud prayers, dhikr, bathing at night, and <br>continues with reading the history of salafunas sholihin. So in this way the Sufistic counseling <br>process not only minimizes negative dhahiriyah behavior but also spiritually.</p> Siti Mutmainnah, M.Syakur, Ach. Zukin Copyright (c) 2024 https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5381 Sun, 07 Jul 2024 00:00:00 +0700 LAYANAN BIMBINGAN PRANIKAH DALAM MEMINIMALISIR ANGKA PERCERAIAN DI KUA KECAMATAN GENTENG https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5382 <p>Marriage is a sacred bond between husband and wife. Getting married makes a person’s <br>life more focused, peaceful, calm and happy. The aim of this research is to describe prema<br>rital guidance services in minimizing the divorce rate in KUA Kec. District roof tiles Ba<br>nyuwangi. This research uses a qualitative research method with a case study type of rese<br>arch. The results of the premarital guidance research carried out included two services, the <br>f<br>irst was a regular, premarital guidance service, the second was an independent guidance ser<br>vice where there were only mentors and prospective husband and wife couples, it was car<br>ried out at moment rafa’. The material presented by the counselors in the implementation of <br>premarital guidance is about the meaning of marriage, how to achieve a sakinah, mawaddah, <br>warahmah family, communication patterns, the rights and obligations of husband and wife.</p> Indriana, Saifullah Copyright (c) 2024 https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5382 Sun, 07 Jul 2024 00:00:00 +0700 REVITALISASI LAYANAN BIMBINGAN DAN KONSELING DI PESANTREN https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5383 <p>Islamic boarding schools as traditional Islamic educational institutions have an important <br>role in shaping the character of students. However, so far attention to the development of psy<br>chological aspects and mental well-being of students is still less than optimal, even though <br>this is very important to support the students’ learning process. Therefore, to face the com<br>plex challenges of a rapidly developing era, it is necessary to revitalize guidance and counse<br>ling services. The aim of this research is to describe the revitalization of guidance and coun<br>seling services in Islamic boarding schools. This research uses the library research method. <br>This research produces an elaboration on the vital and integral role of counseling guidance <br>services in Islamic boarding schools. That counseling guidance services must be a consulta<br>tion service for students, as a reactive measure for violations committed by students, and co<br>unseling guidance services as an evaluative action to measure the level of success of the ser<br>vices provided. This has implications for the psychological, emotional, spiritual, intellectual <br>and social aspects of the lives of students in Islamic boarding schools.</p> Ach. Firman Ilahi, Moh. Hafid Copyright (c) 2024 https://journal.ibrahimy.ac.id/index.php/attawazun/article/view/5383 Sun, 07 Jul 2024 00:00:00 +0700